How do you talk to yourself? What are the words you use? Self-talk is so critical and very few people take the concept of self-talk as seriously as it needs to understand. Listen to Self-talk Part 1 of Tons to learn how to improve your self-talk.
Your self-talk is critical. It will either move you forward or backwards. The words you say to yourself are important because it's what you think of yourself. How are healthy and loving is your self-talk?