Poor me. Woe is me. Blah blah blah… You can either ask questions that will continue to put you in self-pity or you can take control of your thinking and ask smarter questions. While you listen think on the story of Job who asked that question to God. He was told that he was being self-righteous and thinking he was better than people by asking such a question.
Check out this short video to learn how to reframe the “why me” questions to solution-focused questions that move you to a more appreciative and grateful heart.